
| Location | Basildon,essex |
| Age | 63 years |
| Date of Birth | 02/09/1944 |
| Date of Death | 25/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 24,669 since 27/09/2007 |
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THANKYOU FOR ALL THAT LIGHT CANDLES ON MY NANS SITE AND MY DADS SITE ITS VERY MUCH APPRECIATED
SENDING LOTS OF LOVE FOR YOU AND YOUR ANGELS XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Stella Cartey
Wife To [David]
Mum To [Chris], [David], [Sarah]
Nan To [Vicky] , [Lucy] , [Amy], [Ashley], [Me], [Aaron], [Georgia], [Killian], [Teagan-Skye],
[Romilly-Amber Stella].
Born 2nd September 1944
Went to heaven - 25th September 2007
aged 63.
my nan was the best nan in the whole wide world, so precious, so special the biggest heart of gold
going.
nan was just like dad, do anything for anyone.
nan used to be in hospital quite a bit but when she was in i would go up every single day after
school and on weekends, if it meant riding, walking, catching the bus i was there to see nan.
we was so close anyway, seeing as we only lived around the corner and when dad was in hospital for 4
months we lived with nan and grandad.
nan was such a happy person, and always made me smile.
she took us up the hospital every night to see dad whilst he was ill in hospital, and we'd visit him
to make him feel better in himself so he could improve, although i didnt think a year later my dad
would then be back with his mum and become an angel too.
i used to go up every day and see nan, and every day we went up we got chips and there was this
bottle of garlic sauce, i used to use like half a bottle a week and my nan would say to me 'corr gem
they know when your up here, because they have to order more of that sauce!' the women in the bed
opposite said if me and my brother carried on eating chips we would turn in to potatoes that made me
giggle.
nan would make me laugh all the time, and i loved being with her.
she was the kindest person and such a caring person doing things for people even if she was ill, she
wouldnt hurt a fly. although she was ill she done everything for us, helped us move house, sorted
out my school stuff and any problems i had, if a teacher has a problem nan would be straight on the
phone to them.
she made sure us 4 kids were sorted out before anything else being the considerate kind hearted
person she was.
always offering to do things for others, she made everyone laugh and always listened to my day at
school or things that i had been doing.
nothing will ever be the same, christmas was nans favourite time of the year, she used to loved
decorating her christmas tree from head to toe in red and white tinsell and covering with sparkly
balls, and to see our faces at the presents and not caring what we had brought her because she said
it was the thought that counted.
if i could have one wish i know exactly what it would be it would be for nan to be here with us all,
the old times, id give anything. its so horrible to know she wont ever walk through the door again,
never ring me up and say hello, or kiss me goodbye. noone could ever replace nan, she was like a mum
to me and now shes gone part of me is missing, its will never be the same.
Just when i thought things couldnt get much worse they do, we never get any luck.
the nurses were even thinking about letting my nan come home because she had improved so much.
I remember the day I got told she had gone to join the other beautiful angels in the sky.
i was at school, and i already had my bus ticket to go see her after school during the day everyone
was like 'gem you walking home?' and id be like 'no sorry im going to see my nan'
so it got to my last lesson and i had been drinking lots of fizzy drinks and was laughing lots, so i
got moved to the back of the classroom. when i saw a teacher walking past my class with my older
brother Ashley i didnt think anything of it, untill i got a knock at the door and got told to follow
her. not one part of me actually thought it was anything to do with nan, in fact i thought my dad
had become ill, so then we went to my twin brother aarons class to pick him up. and he said to me
'its nan' i can tell its nanny, i said dont be stupid al nans getting better.
we walked in to reception and my dad and alan (my dads best mate) were sitting there my dads eyes so
so red and i just thought for a moment, seriously whats going on.
my dad took ash in to the room at first and sat him down and told him and come to see me, and told
me. i didnt believe it, i didnt even think it was true.
i carried my phone by me for about 3 weeks hoping it was all a mistake and that nan would ring me up
and tell me she was all ok.
but there was nothing, part of me was gone and i knew i wouldnt ever get it back till i was with her
again.
i went to see nan and put in a letter i had wrote for her, and a little no1 nan plaque thing, as i
knew it would be the last time.
she has her special garden up the cemetry where we all put flowers and gifts for her.
its so pretty and by far one of the brightest at night with all those lights.
on christmas she has her tree and lights and looks so pretty.
R.I.P Nanny i love you,
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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November
FOR MONDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR TUESDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.
FOR THURSDAY
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
FOR SATURDAY
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
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My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
FOR SUNDAY
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Tributes For Week Starting 9th November
FOR MONDAY
Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
FOR TUESDAY
Loving you is easy,
We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
FOR WEDNESDAY
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
FOR THURSDAY
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
FOR FRIDAY
Wings Of The Angels
A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.
Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.
On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.
FOR SATURDAY
If I Had One Last Day
If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied
I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay
You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"
Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"
If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart
If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.
FOR SUNDAY
Cry Not My Friend
When you wake up tomorrow
And I am no where to be found
When you scream out my name
To the emptiness around
When every beat inside your heart
Is skipping and unsure
Cry not my friend for I am here,
Inside your love so pure
When the waves that used to touch our feet
Have gone back out to sea
When everything you once held dear
Was lost when you lost me
When the sun that once lit up your face
Is setting far away
Cry not my Friend for time shall pass,
But my love for you will stay
When age arrives and children play
And pain creeps up on you
When loved ones show you happiness
That your life never knew
When all of your expectations are met,
No matter what the pain
Cry not my friend, for I am waiting
To hold you once again
When beauty in your eyes turn grey
And all of the rainbow, white
When strong undying hearts
No longer feel an urge to fight
When winter snows become more pain
Than beauty in your heart
Cry not my friend, for I am here
And we will never ever part
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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ROSES GROW IN HEAVEN
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
♥♥ WITH LOVE ♥♥
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~~ The Angels ~~
May angels rest beside your door
May you hear their voices sing
May you feel their loving care for you
May you hear their peace bells ring
May angels always care for you
And not let you trip and fall
May they bear you up on angels wings
May they keep you standing tall
May they whisper wisdom in your ear
May they touch you when you need
May they remove you from each trace of fear
May they keep you from feeling greed
May they fill you with their presence
May they show you love untold
May they always stand beside you
And make you ever bold
May they teach you what you want to know
About life here and here-after
May they fill you always with their love
And give you the gift of laughter
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~~ Angel In My Pocket ~~
I am a tiny angel
I'm smaller than your thumb
I live in peoples pockets
That's where I have my fun
I don't suppose you've seen me
I'm too tiny to detect
Though i'm with you all the time
I doubt we've ever met
Before I was an angel...
I was a fairy in a flower
God himself hand picked me
And gave me angel power
Now god has many angels
That he trains in angel pools
We become his eyes and ears and hands
We become his special tools
And because god is so busy
With way too much to do
He said that my assignment
Is to keep close watch on you
When he tucked me in your pocket
He blessed you with angel care
Then told me to never leave you
And I vowed always to be there
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~~ Guardian Angels ~~
When angels sense you need them
and angels always do.....
they come unseen from everywhere
to help and comfort you
they hover close beside you
till all your cares are gone
till they can see you're ready
once again to carry on
Then some of them may fly away
and take their gentle touch
to other hearts that need
the love of angels very much
but one at least stays with you
as your constant friend and guide
for guardian angels never leave
they're always at your side
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Lots Of Love Always ~~ Elaine...x♥x
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You can shed tears that she is gone
or you can smile
because she has lived
You can close your eyes
and wish that she'll come back
or you can open your eyes
and see all she's left
You can remember her
and only that she's gone
or you can cherish her memory
and let it live on
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*****SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YOU IN HEAVEN*****
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A candle filled with lots of extra love is sent to you in your home above,i will be away until Tuesday but will be thinking of you as i carry you in my heart Always x x x
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with love alwaysxxxx
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GONETOOSOON ANGELXXXXX
ANGELVERSARYXXX
Thinking of you Stella,
on your angelversary.
In my thoughts on this difficult
day Gemma & familyxxx
God bless
love always Belindaxxxx
Remembering You
Your time on earth seemed all too brief
because I wanted you in my life forever.
And although I really miss you,
in my heart I know that you are at peace.
Still, countless times throughout the day
I find myself remembering you.
Although I cannot see or hear you,
I know that you are with me.
I'll feel you in the warmth of the summer sun.
I'll see you in the brilliance of autumn leaves.
You'll be beside me in the peacefulness of a gentle snowfall
and rejoice with me at the emergence
of the first flowers of spring.
I'm thankful for the times we shared
and the priceless memories too;
for those memories are a comfort now when I lovingly -
Remember You.
For Angel Stella xx
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THINKING OF YOU AS ALWAYS ANGEL STELLA XX
























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