| Location | Basildon,essex |
| Age | 63 years |
| Date of Birth | 02/09/1944 |
| Date of Death | 25/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 24,771 since 27/09/2007 |
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THANKYOU FOR ALL THAT LIGHT CANDLES ON MY NANS SITE AND MY DADS SITE ITS VERY MUCH APPRECIATED
SENDING LOTS OF LOVE FOR YOU AND YOUR ANGELS XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Stella Cartey
Wife To [David]
Mum To [Chris], [David], [Sarah]
Nan To [Vicky] , [Lucy] , [Amy], [Ashley], [Me], [Aaron], [Georgia], [Killian], [Teagan-Skye],
[Romilly-Amber Stella].
Born 2nd September 1944
Went to heaven - 25th September 2007
aged 63.
my nan was the best nan in the whole wide world, so precious, so special the biggest heart of gold
going.
nan was just like dad, do anything for anyone.
nan used to be in hospital quite a bit but when she was in i would go up every single day after
school and on weekends, if it meant riding, walking, catching the bus i was there to see nan.
we was so close anyway, seeing as we only lived around the corner and when dad was in hospital for 4
months we lived with nan and grandad.
nan was such a happy person, and always made me smile.
she took us up the hospital every night to see dad whilst he was ill in hospital, and we'd visit him
to make him feel better in himself so he could improve, although i didnt think a year later my dad
would then be back with his mum and become an angel too.
i used to go up every day and see nan, and every day we went up we got chips and there was this
bottle of garlic sauce, i used to use like half a bottle a week and my nan would say to me 'corr gem
they know when your up here, because they have to order more of that sauce!' the women in the bed
opposite said if me and my brother carried on eating chips we would turn in to potatoes that made me
giggle.
nan would make me laugh all the time, and i loved being with her.
she was the kindest person and such a caring person doing things for people even if she was ill, she
wouldnt hurt a fly. although she was ill she done everything for us, helped us move house, sorted
out my school stuff and any problems i had, if a teacher has a problem nan would be straight on the
phone to them.
she made sure us 4 kids were sorted out before anything else being the considerate kind hearted
person she was.
always offering to do things for others, she made everyone laugh and always listened to my day at
school or things that i had been doing.
nothing will ever be the same, christmas was nans favourite time of the year, she used to loved
decorating her christmas tree from head to toe in red and white tinsell and covering with sparkly
balls, and to see our faces at the presents and not caring what we had brought her because she said
it was the thought that counted.
if i could have one wish i know exactly what it would be it would be for nan to be here with us all,
the old times, id give anything. its so horrible to know she wont ever walk through the door again,
never ring me up and say hello, or kiss me goodbye. noone could ever replace nan, she was like a mum
to me and now shes gone part of me is missing, its will never be the same.
Just when i thought things couldnt get much worse they do, we never get any luck.
the nurses were even thinking about letting my nan come home because she had improved so much.
I remember the day I got told she had gone to join the other beautiful angels in the sky.
i was at school, and i already had my bus ticket to go see her after school during the day everyone
was like 'gem you walking home?' and id be like 'no sorry im going to see my nan'
so it got to my last lesson and i had been drinking lots of fizzy drinks and was laughing lots, so i
got moved to the back of the classroom. when i saw a teacher walking past my class with my older
brother Ashley i didnt think anything of it, untill i got a knock at the door and got told to follow
her. not one part of me actually thought it was anything to do with nan, in fact i thought my dad
had become ill, so then we went to my twin brother aarons class to pick him up. and he said to me
'its nan' i can tell its nanny, i said dont be stupid al nans getting better.
we walked in to reception and my dad and alan (my dads best mate) were sitting there my dads eyes so
so red and i just thought for a moment, seriously whats going on.
my dad took ash in to the room at first and sat him down and told him and come to see me, and told
me. i didnt believe it, i didnt even think it was true.
i carried my phone by me for about 3 weeks hoping it was all a mistake and that nan would ring me up
and tell me she was all ok.
but there was nothing, part of me was gone and i knew i wouldnt ever get it back till i was with her
again.
i went to see nan and put in a letter i had wrote for her, and a little no1 nan plaque thing, as i
knew it would be the last time.
she has her special garden up the cemetry where we all put flowers and gifts for her.
its so pretty and by far one of the brightest at night with all those lights.
on christmas she has her tree and lights and looks so pretty.
R.I.P Nanny i love you,
It's raining outside..
So cold and wet
Is it sunny in heaven?
It is I bet
Water falls from the sky..
Just like my tears..
That I cry
I cry so much..
And I hurt with pain
Since you went to heaven..
I've not been the same
I miss you so much..
As the days go by
My tears fall slowly..
As I wipe my eyes
I think of you..
With joy and pride
Please keep me safe..
And walk by my side
I look up to the sky..
As I think of you with love
My sweet Angel..
In heaven above
copyright� Jackie Thomas 29/07/09.
love lorraine xxxxxxxxxxx
It's raining outside..
So cold and wet
Is it sunny in heaven?
It is I bet
Water falls from the sky..
Just like my tears..
That I cry
I cry so much..
And I hurt with pain
Since you went to heaven..
I've not been the same
I miss you so much..
As the days go by
My tears fall slowly..
As I wipe my eyes
I think of you..
With joy and pride
Please keep me safe..
And walk by my side
I look up to the sky..
As I think of you with love
My sweet Angel..
In heaven above
copyright© Jackie Thomas 29/07/09.
Love and Hugs Barbara xx
ALWAYS IN MIND
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Time has stood still for those who love you,
the grief is still fresh, their hearts are still blue.
Memories can ease pain but they never can fill,
the space that is left when they think of you still.
So stay near to those who miss you each day,
for they carry a sadness since you went away.
Send the strength to cope where others have tried,
and some love for their hearts that hurt deep inside.
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Sweet dreams angel. Sending love to you and your loved ones.xxx
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I would like to take this opportunity
To thank everyone for all the messages
And photographs that I have received
Since the birth of Our Third Grandson Millar Chris
They are all very much appreciated
I have read every single one
It’s brilliant to have a baby in the family again,
We are over the moon, but a little sad his
Uncle Christopher won’t get a chance to meet him,
He was a wonderful Uncle to our other two Grandson’s
Jack & Layton they miss him terribly… we all do.
Thanks again
Angela A Very Happy Gran X…. But A Very Sad Mum X
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Tributes for this weekend
FOR FRIDAY
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.
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FOR SATURDAY
Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart
I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night
I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you
And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
Forever in my heart
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FOR SUNDAY
I lose my grip on reality
On each day that passes by;
I haven't a clue where I'm headed
Oh how this pain makes me cry
My world is changing so quickly
And I'm losing everything in sight;
Why can't things go back to how it used to be
So that everything would be alright
Why do we have to lose the ones we love
It's just not fair, it's just not right;
Oh why God do you take them
Can't you see, I'm filled with fright
The days come and go
But the pain, it stays forever;
It never really leaves your soul
When you know, you'll no longer be together
Your heart, it's ripped wide open
And even though you try to hide;
It will break and bleed continuously
And feel as though it will never subside
I can take this pain no longer
Oh how it's killing me inside;
What suffering we have to go through
When the ones we love, have died
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Our Beautiful Grandson Arrived On Saturday Afternoon
He Is Called Millar Chris, Mum & Baby Doing Fine
His Middle Name Chris Is After His Wonderful Uncle
I'm A Very Happy Gran But Sad Mum......
FOR MONDAY
If we could only speak to them,
And hold their loving hand,
No matter what we said or did,
We know they’d understand.
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FOR TUESDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts your always there.
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FOR WEDNESDAY
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
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FOR THURSDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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TRIBUTES EARLY FOR THIS WEEKEND
WE ARE STILL WAITING FOR
NEW GRANDSON TO ARRIVE
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THINKING ABOUT OUR LOVED ONES
You can shed tears that they are gone,
Or you can smile because they lived,
You can close your eyes and pray
That they will come back,
Or you can open your eyes
And see all that they have left.
Your heart can be empty
Because you can't see them
Or you can be full
Of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on
Tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow
Because of yesterday.
You can remember them
And only that they are gone
Or you can cherish the memory
And let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind
Be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what they would want:
Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
FOR FRIDAY
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OUR LIVES HAVE CHANGED
Our Lives changed,
The very moment you passed away.
We couldn't stop it;
There was nothing we could say.
You've touched our lives so deeply
To a point you will never know,
We try to think about you
When we are feeling down and low.
Sometimes when our day gets hard
We will think about your beautiful smile
And if we listen hard enough
We will hear your voice after a while.
It's you who give us a reason
To go on with our day,
And now if we want to see you
We'll bow our heads and pray.
We catch ourselves looking for you still,
In the halls and at the front door,
But when we call your name
There is no reply any more!
We never thought a day would come
Where we would be apart,
God has you in his keepings,
We have you in our hearts.
Life will go on,
But never will be the same,
Your beautiful smile is gone,
But it will always remain.
You're our angel from up above.
You'll always be missed,
But most importantly... loved.
Just one more minute,
God, is all we ask- why can't you give them back;
It seems like such a simple task.
We guess people are right when they say
God only takes the best,
We know enough now that you're peacefully at rest.
FOR SATURDAY
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A SPECIAL MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN
I'm writing this from heaven,
Where I dwell with God above.
Where there's no more tears or sadness,
There's just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy
Because I am out of sight
Remember that I am with you
Every morning, noon and night.
And I will stay beside you,
Every day, week and year
And when you're sad I'll still be there
To wipe away your tears.
When you think of my life on earth
And all those living years
Because your only human
Their bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry
It does relieve the pain
Remember there wouldn't be flowers
Unless we first had rain.
I wish I could tell you
Of all that God has planned
But even if I were able to,
You wouldn't understand.
When your going down the street
And you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps
And only half a step behind.
And if you feel a gentle breeze
Or wind upon your face
Remember it's only me
With a loving and soft embrace.
FOR SUNDAY
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Legacy of Love
A Wife, a Mother, a Grandma too,
This is the legacy we have from you.
You taught us love and how to fight,
You gave us strength, you gave us might.
A stronger person would be hard to find,
And in your heart, you were always kind.
You fought for us all in one way or another,
Not just as a wife not just as a Mother.
For all of us you gave your best,
Now the time has come for you to rest.
So go in peace, you've earned your sleep,
Your love in our hearts, we'll eternally keep
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Love
Love is like a butterfly;
It goes where it pleases
And pleases wherever it goes.
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Stars
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones
Shine down
To let us know they
Are happy.
FOR TUESDAY
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A Gift
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR WEDNESDAY
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Butterfly
As you danced in the light with joy,
love lifted you. As you brushed against
this world so gently, you lifted us.
FOR THURSDAY
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Just to say THANKYOU so much for keeping my brothers candles lit with love even though ive not been on for a while you havent forgot it makes me feel so at peace to know YOU still care words will never never be enough to show you how thankfull and greatfull i am im sending my love hugs kisses to you and your Angel may God bless you and keep you in his thoughts you are so thoughtfull its beautifull to feel like TERRY is thought of constantly ...God Bless You ..(I WILL ADMIT HEARING HIS MUSIC HAS UPSET AND SADDENED ME YET AGAIN KNOWING ILL NOT SEE MY LOVELY BROTHER AGAIN )LOVE HUGS KISSES FROM TINA XX
♥ 5TH JUNE 2009 ♥
ITS HARD TO HIDE A BROKEN HEART.........
HOW CAN ANYONE SEE MY BROKEN HEART
THEY WOULD NOT KNOW WHERE TO START
THIS IS NOT SOMETHING ANYONE CAN SEE
MY HEART IS HIDING INSIDE OF ME.
I SURE THAT IF IT COULD BLEED IT WOULD
PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF ARE MISUNDERSTOOD
WE ARE ALL HURTING AND IN SO MUCH PAIN
LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.
THE TEARS OF SADDNESS I CANNOT HELP BUT WEEP
MY BROKEN HEART IS MINE ALONE TO KEEP
ONLY ANOTHER PERSON LIKE MYSELF WOULD KNOW
JUST HOW HARD IT IS TO LET OUR REAL FEELINGS SHOW........
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copyright� Rosalind Roberts.
Summerwind
The one who owns this summer is not here,
not here to know the tender summerwind,
not here to share the glowing and the song.
The one who owns this summer did not live,
not live to touch the richness of this day,
this day in summer when you are alone.
Weep to the summerwind, weep and love again
the one you remember,
Sascha
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