
| Location | Basildon,essex |
| Age | 63 years |
| Date of Birth | 02/09/1944 |
| Date of Death | 25/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 24,768 since 27/09/2007 |
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THANKYOU FOR ALL THAT LIGHT CANDLES ON MY NANS SITE AND MY DADS SITE ITS VERY MUCH APPRECIATED
SENDING LOTS OF LOVE FOR YOU AND YOUR ANGELS XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Stella Cartey
Wife To [David]
Mum To [Chris], [David], [Sarah]
Nan To [Vicky] , [Lucy] , [Amy], [Ashley], [Me], [Aaron], [Georgia], [Killian], [Teagan-Skye],
[Romilly-Amber Stella].
Born 2nd September 1944
Went to heaven - 25th September 2007
aged 63.
my nan was the best nan in the whole wide world, so precious, so special the biggest heart of gold
going.
nan was just like dad, do anything for anyone.
nan used to be in hospital quite a bit but when she was in i would go up every single day after
school and on weekends, if it meant riding, walking, catching the bus i was there to see nan.
we was so close anyway, seeing as we only lived around the corner and when dad was in hospital for 4
months we lived with nan and grandad.
nan was such a happy person, and always made me smile.
she took us up the hospital every night to see dad whilst he was ill in hospital, and we'd visit him
to make him feel better in himself so he could improve, although i didnt think a year later my dad
would then be back with his mum and become an angel too.
i used to go up every day and see nan, and every day we went up we got chips and there was this
bottle of garlic sauce, i used to use like half a bottle a week and my nan would say to me 'corr gem
they know when your up here, because they have to order more of that sauce!' the women in the bed
opposite said if me and my brother carried on eating chips we would turn in to potatoes that made me
giggle.
nan would make me laugh all the time, and i loved being with her.
she was the kindest person and such a caring person doing things for people even if she was ill, she
wouldnt hurt a fly. although she was ill she done everything for us, helped us move house, sorted
out my school stuff and any problems i had, if a teacher has a problem nan would be straight on the
phone to them.
she made sure us 4 kids were sorted out before anything else being the considerate kind hearted
person she was.
always offering to do things for others, she made everyone laugh and always listened to my day at
school or things that i had been doing.
nothing will ever be the same, christmas was nans favourite time of the year, she used to loved
decorating her christmas tree from head to toe in red and white tinsell and covering with sparkly
balls, and to see our faces at the presents and not caring what we had brought her because she said
it was the thought that counted.
if i could have one wish i know exactly what it would be it would be for nan to be here with us all,
the old times, id give anything. its so horrible to know she wont ever walk through the door again,
never ring me up and say hello, or kiss me goodbye. noone could ever replace nan, she was like a mum
to me and now shes gone part of me is missing, its will never be the same.
Just when i thought things couldnt get much worse they do, we never get any luck.
the nurses were even thinking about letting my nan come home because she had improved so much.
I remember the day I got told she had gone to join the other beautiful angels in the sky.
i was at school, and i already had my bus ticket to go see her after school during the day everyone
was like 'gem you walking home?' and id be like 'no sorry im going to see my nan'
so it got to my last lesson and i had been drinking lots of fizzy drinks and was laughing lots, so i
got moved to the back of the classroom. when i saw a teacher walking past my class with my older
brother Ashley i didnt think anything of it, untill i got a knock at the door and got told to follow
her. not one part of me actually thought it was anything to do with nan, in fact i thought my dad
had become ill, so then we went to my twin brother aarons class to pick him up. and he said to me
'its nan' i can tell its nanny, i said dont be stupid al nans getting better.
we walked in to reception and my dad and alan (my dads best mate) were sitting there my dads eyes so
so red and i just thought for a moment, seriously whats going on.
my dad took ash in to the room at first and sat him down and told him and come to see me, and told
me. i didnt believe it, i didnt even think it was true.
i carried my phone by me for about 3 weeks hoping it was all a mistake and that nan would ring me up
and tell me she was all ok.
but there was nothing, part of me was gone and i knew i wouldnt ever get it back till i was with her
again.
i went to see nan and put in a letter i had wrote for her, and a little no1 nan plaque thing, as i
knew it would be the last time.
she has her special garden up the cemetry where we all put flowers and gifts for her.
its so pretty and by far one of the brightest at night with all those lights.
on christmas she has her tree and lights and looks so pretty.
R.I.P Nanny i love you,
Dear All,
As this is going to be a difficult week for our family I am lighting the candles & tribute for this week today.
I want to make sure all your angels don’t miss out on the candles and tributes I hope you all understand
I will be back on Sunday with Monday’s candle
It would have been Christopher’s Birthday on Wednesday, he was on his way home from having a drink to celebrate his 27th Birthday when the accident happened and sadly he died 2 days later.
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In our hearts your memory lingers
Sweetly tender, fond and true,
There is not a day, dear angel
That we do not think of you.
For Mon
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We know that you're beside us,
In everything we do,
But life's just not the same
Now that we've lost you
For Tues
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Things I feel most deeply
Are the hardest things to say
My dearest one, I love you
In a very special way
For Wed
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Your life was a blessing
Your memory a treasure
You are loved beyond words
And missed beyond measure
For Thur
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Tribute For The Weekend
I'm sending a dove to heaven
With a parcel on its wings.
Be careful how you open it
It’s full of beautiful things
Inside are a million kisses
Wrapped up in a million hugs
To say how much you mean to us
And send you all our love
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Babies are angels
That fly to earth
Their wings disappear
At the time of there birth
One look in their eye
And we're never the same
They're part of us now
And that part has a name
That part is your heart
And a bond that won’t sever
Our babies are angels
And we love them forever
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It happens without warning
Time and time again
I go along and join the flow
But still remember when
You were there to share it all
That made it all worth while
The memories keep flooding back
And once again I smile
Then reality returns to me
And once again your gone
If only this little dream I have
Could simply just go on
I try and hide the heartache
But I feel it none the less
These are my words I send to you
I MISS YOU……..
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Just the average family
We didn't ask for more.
Then life was changed completely
With that knock upon our door.
This awful thing had happened
And none of us knew why.
You were never coming back again
And we didn't say goodbye.
Our world just fell to pieces
We cried with disbelief.
We had to stick together
To overcome our grief.
We'll never understand it
It all seems so unfair.
We wish we'd hear that knock again
And see you standing there.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Can you see my castle
up here in the sky
its got big golden gates
that sparkle in my eyes
Can you see my garden
its full of red flowers
and they smell beautiful
they hold magic powers
I have many new friends
that are all like me
they too are an angel
flying high and free
They watch over families
that like me left behind
and send them angel kisses
they are friends hard to find
I'm glad i'm in heaven
and that I am at peace today
yes I miss my family dear
but I had to go away
God picked me from many
and said that i'm one of the best
and I had completed my lifes journey
and that I had passed the test
So I deserve this castle
that god gave to me
and one day if you're lucky
this castle you will see
Thinking of you always ~~ Love Jane...xxx
Tribute for this weekend
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LOVE CHRISTOPHER & ANGELA X X
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I'm just a little Angel
Sent from up above
To help guide you and protect you
And give you lots of love.
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On those days when you feel lonely
Kinda sad and blue
You'll feel my little Angel wings
Tenderly enfolding you.
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I'm just a little Angel
Come down from Heaven above
Who will always and forever
Give you my "Bestest" Angel Hugs.
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Lights of Love
Can you see our candles
Burning in the night?
Lights of love we send you
Rays of purest white
Children we remember
Though missing from our sight
In honour and remembrance
We light candles in the night
All across the big blue marble
Spinning out in space
Can you see the candles burning
From this human place?
Oh, angels gone before us
Who taught us perfect love
This night the world lights candles
That you may see them from above
Tonight the globe is lit by love
Of those who know great sorrow,
But as we remember our yesterdays
Let's light one candle for tomorrow
IF HEAVEN HAD A PHONE
I cannot dial your number,
I can't get through to you,
I called the operator,
She did all that she could do.
There is no code for heaven,
I cannot place the call,
No numbers left to call,
I reckon I've tried them all.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
There's things I want to say.
To tell you that I love you,
And miss you every day,
How much I prayed to god,
That he could let you stay.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
I'd hear your voice, know you're okay,
I just want to speak to heaven,
Please do you have a direct line,
Operator says no number,
But your loved one says they’re doing fine.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
For Friday
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Just for you Angel Stella xx
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I'm sending a dove to heaven
with a parcel on its wings
be careful when you open it
its full of beautiful things
inside are a million kisses
wrapped in a million hugs
to say how much you mean to me
and send you all my love
Love Always ~~ Jane...xxx
SENT WITH LOVE. XxX
Please send the candle of love
to someone who has touched your life,
and keep the flame of love burning bright.
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SENDING LOVE AND HUGS TO ALL.SENGA.XXX
Tribute for this weekend
Candles will be lit on
Sunday For Monday
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A FOUR LEAF CLOVER
A four leaf clover
A treasure priceless and rare
Like my child in heaven above
Now in gods tender loving care.
Each leaf a meaning a part of my grief
One leaf for strength
One for memories so dear
One leaf for peace
And one for my faith in god above.
Each represents a part of my life
My child in heaven
Forever missed and forever loved.
The first leaf on the clover
Stands for strength
To make it through the day
From morning to night darkness to light
With gods help each step of the way.
The second leaf on the clover
Stands for peace
That only god can bring
A peace that restores my mourning heart
Smoothes the edges of pain
And help me learn to live again.
The third leaf on the clover
Stands for memories
That I hold dear
Their spirit will shine on
In the memories left behind
Although time may pass
They will never disappear.
The fourth leaf on the clover
Stands for faith in god above
Believing with all my heart
In what I cannot see
Knowing we will meet again
By the golden gates in heaven above.
Until then I’ll Keep my memories
Tucked deep inside with love
Along with my four leaf clover
My treasures from heaven above.
A clover A treasure Blessings
From above strength peace
Memories and faith
All sent from heaven with gods everlasting love.
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The Mention Of Your Name
Do you make them laugh up their,
Does your smile bring them good cheer?
Do you make the sun shine brighter,
Like you did when you were here?
The very mention of your name,
The memories of your smile,
The little things you said and did,
Are with us all the while.
You meant so very much to us,
There’s nothing left to say,
Except that without you here
There is no perfect day.
For no one knows the heartache,
That lies behind our smiles,
No one knows how many times
We have broken down & cried.
We want to tell you something
So there wont be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without...
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Sweet Memories
I never meant to leave you
Could I have only stayed
We would be going on in life
With all the plans we made
Now all the hopes and dreams we shared
Are but sweet memories
For you to tuck inside your heart
Now when you remember me
Remember all the good times
And all the joy we shared
Remember how you touched my life
And how I really cared
Think back on all the laughter
And wipe away the tears
You have still many miles to go
And still have many years
Don't look back, look forward
This day is a brand new start
And as you travel on in life
You'll take a bit of my heart
I never meant to leave you
But still you'll not be alone
For as long as my love lives in you
I'll never really be gone
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela X Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
For Friday
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Thinking of you Angel Stella xx
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